CUFSmaine Volunteer Mentors

The CUFSmaine Volunteer Mentors Program exists to offer assistance, guidance, advice, and training to individuals who are learning about BDSM and finding their way in the community.

A Mentor is a teacher, advisor or coach - Mentors in this program are NOT volunteering their expertise in order to find partners.  

If you are looking for a partner, and not an advisor, then please check out the Kinky Klassifieds section for info on seeking play partners in your area.


Volunteer Mentors

Big Bill

Dee (Domino's Bratt)

Mistress Jan

Mistress Ren

Ron

Sir Domino

SteelSkys

suu
 


Mentor Information - Big Bill

Name:  William --- scene name: Big Bill --- screen name:  magauna 
Age: 
46
Location:
  Freeport, Maine
Role:
  Dominant switch
Orientation:
  Gay……..Bi
Marital/Partner Status:
  Partnered with suu b honey
Experience:
  I started in the scene in 1979
My Training:
  I started as a bottom and learned my way to  where I am    
Specialties: 
mind trips, whipping, spanking, electrical play, Massage, after care
References Available:
  yes upon request
BDSM Group Affiliations:
  Black Fire MC  …. Public Maine Sceners
Other Information:
Email Address:
  Big15boots@aol.com

Mentoring Preferences : I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  male
Role:
  any
Orientation:
  any
Online or Real Time Training:
  see above …real time
Other Information: 
 " if its not fun, its not play " We can mentor as a couple if desired


Mentor Information - Domino's Bratt

Name:  Diana - DominosBratt
Age: 
30
Location:
  Kittery, Maine
Role:
  Submissive
Orientation:
  Bisexual
Marital/Partner Status:
  Full time submissive
Experience: 
4.5 years real time
My Training:
  Books, Internet research and submissive support groups, trial and error, Classes and seminars put on by various BDSM organizations
Specialties: 
Whatever Sir likes...
References Available:
  Yes
BDSM Group Affiliations:
  CUFSmaine, Bound for Pleasure, NELA, Sisters in Submission, MaineSubmissives, ALUR, Inc.
Other Information:
Email Address:  DominosBratt@aol.com 


Mentoring Preferences: I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  both
Role:
  submissive
Orientation:
  Any
Online or Real Time Training: 
both
Other Information:


Mentor Information - Mistress Jan

Name:  Mistress_Jan
Age:  
46
Location: 
Upstate, South Carolina
Role: 
Dominant-will bottom for scene play.
Orientation: 
Bi-Sexual 
Marital/Partner Status: 
Divorced
Experience: 
three years
My Training: 
Online and real time. 
Specialties: 
Spanking, flogging, single tails, crops, pins, oil of peppermint
References Available: 
Yes
BDSM Group Affiliations: 
Visit the SC Lock for Munches!
Other Information: 
I came out of the closet three years ago, and have come to enjoy most all realms of BDSM live play. I am serious individual and only teach those who have a genuine need to learn and become who they are supposed to be. I was all alone when I started in the life. I have worked with a few folks to get them going, and I also have an MSN web site designed for the Novice Submissive: http://groups.msn.com/DisciplineConnection/_whatsnew.msnw?&pps=k
Email Address: 
janiceleeinsc@msn.com

Mentoring Preferences : I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  Females
Role: 
Submissive
Orientation:  straight/bisexual
Online or Real Time Training: 
Online and meet for real session.
Other Information:  I like to work with the Novice submissive.


Mentor Information - Mistress Ren

Name:  Ren       
Age: 
 40
Location:
  North Country, New Hampshire
Role:
  Dominant
Orientation:
  Mostly Straight - getting more bi curious daily  :P
Marital/Partner Status:
  Mistress and wife to lafayette{Ren}
Experience: 
10 years, Real Time
My Training: 
Trained in the Old Guard ways in the Boston scene - trained briefly as a submissive prior to beginning Dominant training.  I follow and teach using the basic tenets of Old Guard.
Specialties:
  Sensual eroticism, sensation play, sensory deprivation, and spanking.
References Available:
  Yes, upon request
BDSM Group Affiliations:
  CUFSmaine (Coastal United Fetish Society),  ALUR (Alternative Lifestyles United - retreats), Bound for Pleasure - Boston, NELA (New England Leather Association), NESMA (New England S/m Activists), NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom), National Leather Association-International (Former New England Regional Coordinator for the NLA-I Domestic Violence Project)
Other Information: 
I enjoy working with newbies - for those who are survivors, I have training in domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking advocacy and education.
Email Address:  MstressRen@aol.com 


Mentoring Preferences: I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  Male or female
Role: Dominant or submissive
Orientation:  Any
Online or Real Time Training:  Prefer Real Time
Other Information:  I seek to Mentor only those who are serious about learning.  For submissives - I offer mentoring and training in skills in order to prepare you for meeting a future partner - I do not play with those I Mentor.


Mentor Information - Ron

Name:  Ron (Master_WhtKnt, RomanticSwitch, romantic_m_sub)
Age: 
34
Location: 
Lewiston/Auburn Area of Maine
Role: 
Switch
Orientation: 
Straight
Marital/Partner Status: 
Semi-involved
Experience:
  10 years
My Training: 
Initially trained online/phone and self exploration
Specialties: 
Romantic Scenes, submission through mind and senses (as sub and Dom)
References Available:
  upon request
BDSM Group Affiliations:
  CUFSmaine
Other Information:
  Experience working with new people (single/couples) as they explore and Advanced people looking to add to their current lifestyle.
Email Address: 
whtknt4u@yahoo.com  (Yahoo messenger: whtknt4u)

Mentoring Preferences: I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  Both
Role:
  Any
Orientation: 
Straight
Online or Real Time Training:
  Either, I am flexible
Other Information:


Mentor Information - Sir Domino

Name:  Domino
Age: 
48
Location: 
Eliot, ME
Role: 
Dominant
Orientation: 
Straight
Marital/Partner Status: 
24 / 7 with DominosBratt
Experience:  
12 years of active participation and a lifetime in the closet
My Training: 
Books, Classes, Seminars and taking advantage of the knowledge that others are willing to share.
Specialties:  Single Tail, Floggers, Rope Bondage, Wax, The mind
References Available: 
Upon request
BDSM Group Affiliations: 
CUFS, NELA, BFP, APEX, BDS, NCSF
Other Information:
Email Address:  SLDOMLNO@aol.com   
(please note - the 'i's are replaced with capital 'L's)

Mentoring Preferences: I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  Male or Female
Role: 
Dominant, submissive or switch
Orientation: 
Any
Online or Real Time Training: 
Either
Other Information:  
I think that finding a Mentor is more about the personality and style fit than it is a matter of technical skills. I am a sensual top with an eye for the aesthetic when it comes to a scene. I am not about the pain, but more about the power exchange. 

I enjoy the technical skills of whip handling, flogging and bondage and am always seeking out information on these crafts.

I would also add that DominosBratt and I would be happy to mentor, as a team, couples who are new to or are just beginning to consider a 24 / 7 lifestyle.
 


Mentor Information - SteelSkys

Name:  SteelSkys
Age: 
43 - November 7th 1962
Location: 
Alabama
Role:  Dominant Switch
Orientation:
  BI
Marital/Partner Status:
Single
Experience: 
I became involved in BDSM online and real time in 1997. Before knowing of the "lifestyle," I was involved in S&M "play," since my early 20's.
My Training: 
Books, websites, message boards, trial and error. I've had excellent mentors and friends who have been wonderful teachers and guides both online and real time: Mistress Vanessa, Dr. Gloria Brame, Melissa/People Exchanging Power, New Mexico
Specialties:
 
Waxing, clamping, spankings, flogging ... ect.
References Available:
VictorianSadist@aol.com MstrssVan@aol.com MystressDream@aol.comDrGloriaBrame@aol.com, tndrsurrender@attbi.com ... Can furnish more upon request.
BDSM Group Affiliations: 
One being my own mailing list, SteelSkys Leather Playground and Events, PEP New Mexico, DSF, SM-Act, TESS, LMA, CUFSmaine and a few others ...
Other Information: 
I work for PEP, People Exchanging Power, New Mexico. My work includes phone domination, mentoring and SM Counseling.
Email Address: 
SteelSkys@aol.com

Mentoring Preferences: I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  Both
Role:
 
Any
Orientation:  Any
Online or Real Time Training: 
Online, Phone, Real time
Other Information: 
SteelSkys BDSM Website, SteelSkys Leather PlayGround , SteelSkys Lifestyle Events, People Exchanging Power; NM


Mentor Information - Suu

Name:  Suu --- Scene name: greedy girl  or suubhoney --- Screen name; pinestatebitch
Age:
  50
Location:
  Freeport, Maine
Role: 
submissive switch
Orientation:
  straight
Marital/Partner Status:
  Partnered with Big Bill
Experience:
  came out 5 ½ years ago in closet for many years.
My Training:
  heavy s/m bottom,  training as a submissive switch under Big Bill my Master and partner.
Specialties:
  as a switch: flogging, nipple torture, cbt, spanking, caning, and aftercare
References Available:
  yes upon request
BDSM Group Affiliations:
  Public Maine Sceners, The Original PENE Group, ALU, associated with but not member of CMA and CUFS.
Other Information:
Email Address:
  SuuBeeHny@aol.com 

Mentoring Preferences : I Prefer to Mentor...

Sex:  either sex  or a couple just learning
Role:
  Dominant or submissive
Orientation:
  any
Online or Real Time Training:
  real time only
Other Information:
  Can mentor as a couple if desired, Will gladly answer questions via email:SuuBeeHny@aol.com  Lets learn together and have some fun!!!!!!!



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