New England BDSM Listservs and Boards
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General BDSM - New England
General BDSM - Other
An educational and safety forum for members of the Maine and New England BDSM
and alternative lifestyle communities. This forum exists to
facilitate discussion, to educate, support, offer information, and assist
members. This discussion area is moderated by and in conjunction with CUFSmaine,
a non-profit support group in Maine, also serving the New England BDSM
community. This is a pansexual, SSC discussion area. This area is
not for casual social chat. Flaming, insults, and attacks are not
This group is for those who want to
find out more information about upcoming ALUR events. This list is an open forum
for those who are interested or have attended an ALUR event/retreat. This gives
you a unique opportunity to talk to others and find out all about the retreats.
Feel free to discuss anything and ask questions!
Please check out our website at
A group for those in Maine and it's surrounding areas that enjoy alternative
lifestyles. We enjoy many topics as long as respect is shown for all.
Flaming will not be tolerated. You must be 18 to join.
This list is a place for kinky
people in the area to exchange ideas, pass information, learn from each other,
gossip, chat, communicate and have fun getting to know each other, the group,
and the lifestyle in general.
It is designed to be a welcoming
place, where tolerance and patience is exercised, mutual respect is a by-word
and people have a sense of humor.
NOTE: YOU MUST BE 18 YEARS OLD TO JOIN THIS GROUP AND HAVE YOUR AGE IN YOUR
This is a group for those in the Northern Maine/greater Bangor area (or anywhere
else!) to discuss our lifestyle.
We could also be called the NMK- Phoenix since we are reactivating the Northern
Maine Kinksters' group that was disbanded a few years ago.
This link is to our "vacation" home, a place we can retreat to if we get
deleted by Yahoo. When you sign up
here, please go to the link and sign up there, too. Thanks!
Enjoy your time in YOUR group.
Humiliation Domination /
We are a group that enjoys the art of dominations and humiliation as well as
inescapable restraints. We are located in the Rockland area of beautiful
mid-coast Maine. If you wish to join please have a profile filled out and be a
participant either in chatting or meeting
Ds-NewHampshire is a 21+ BD-SM list
group, formed to offer support and friendship for those involved in an
alternative lifestyle (BD, D/s, SM), and a way to keep in touch between munches.
No flaming, spamming or trolling allowed!
Dominance And Related Kink in Small Towns Of New England
We are a small, private social group in SW New Hampshire.
Membership requires attendance at our socials and meeting our members.
Non-members are welcome to join in our Thursday night chats.
For details visit Our Webpage:
White Mountain D/s - firstname.lastname@example.org
A group serving the D/s needs of the
White Mountains Region of New Hampshire and environs, and providing public
munches and more to our members. All open-minded people 21 and over are welcome,
providing that you are respectful of others (no spamming or trolling our
members). Debate of issues is welcome, however no postings criticizing others on
a personal basis are permitted. If you need assistance with a personal issue,
please contact a board moderator. Please be sure your yahoo profile states your
age before joining. Please note, membership in the Yahoo group does NOT mean
membership in WMDS itself. For more information, please visit
CVTASK · Central VT Adult Society of Kink -
Welcome to CVTASK! We are a D/s
group for central Vermont (Rutland/Killington) and surrounding areas. We have
monthly munches open to the public for all open minded people over 21 who are
interested and/or involved in this alternative lifestyle.
All are welcome here. Upon joining, you MUST have a profile that shows your
general location, age. IF YOUR AGE IS NOT IN YOUR PROFILE, YOU WILL BE DELETED
IMMEDIATELY - NO EXCEPTIONS - SO DON'T JOIN THIS GROUP IF YOU ARE NOT WILLING TO
DISCLOSE YOUR AGE!! Please post a brief intro. Feel free to post pictures in the
photos section and stories or articles relevant to D/s in the files section (NO
pictures or posting of anything illegal). Please adhere to the rules: respect
others views and opinions; no spamming, flaming or trolling members.
This group has been under New Management since 2005!
Greetings, this group is meant to be a discussion forum for those interested in
the D/s lifestyle in Vermont and surrounding areas. It is to be a place to share
thoughts and ideas, meet others in the lifestyle, and to build a stronger
community in the Green Mountain State. Being that the D/s community in Vermont
is spread out over a wide area, an online forum will certainly help to bring us
all closer together. We are open to any and all with interest in alternative
lifestyles: straight, gay, bi, and transexual. All are welcomed, and all
respectful thoughts and ideas are greatly appreciated. Come in, make yourself at
** We do ask that those
who would like to join have a filled out Yahoo profile including age, location
and interest in D/s, B D S M and/or alternative lifestyles. If that information
is not on the profile membership will not be granted. **
Bound For Pleasure (BFP) Boston -
"Bound for Pleasure" a New England BDSM social group. This list is open to
anyone interested in the Scene. All topics are welcome but anyone not displaying
good manners and common sense will be banished. Remember, play nice! This list
is NOT for personal ads and trolling but to make friends and network.
mastboston - Masters and
slaves Together: Boston -
MAsT: Boston is a discussion/ support group for Gay Men who are interested in or
living the Master/slave,Daddy/boy,and Dominant/submissive lifestyle.
We meet monthly in Boston for face-to-face discussion (not play) meetings. One
need not be in a relationship to join or attend meetings.
The MAsT: Boston group can be contacted by email:
The group meets the third Tuesday each Month, at the THE ALLEY,14 PI Alley,
Court Square, Boston, MA from 7:30 PM to 9:00 PM with social time after the
This is an ADULTS over 21 only mailing list. Dedicated to the Alt Lifestyle
people of Connecticut but, all are welcome to join. Topics of discussion will
cover but, are not restricted to masters, mistresses, slaves, sub, switches,
tops, bottoms, sadomasochists, fetishists, meetings, events in Connecticut, and
any other aspect of the lifestyle.
This egroup is setup for those that have an intrest in human pet play and live
in the CT area..
Have you had dreams of riding a human pony or having a human puppy laying at
your feet, or maybe it is a human kitty...
Human pet play is softer and more loving loving side of the bdsm lifestyle. The
touching grooming and playing with a pet,
They give so much...
They trust you and love you just as any pet would...Welcome all pets and
owners...A profile is need to join this group.
A newly formed group in the Ocean State of Rhode Island for people interested in
the D/s lifestyle. The group is open to anyone interested in meeting people in
the area. We will have munches at least once a month. We ask that everyone is
respectful of each other and each others differences. We also are committed to
being safe and discreet.
BDSM_RI was founded by people for people involved in the BDSM community.
Acceptance and tolerance is practiced and all are welcome. Come and discuss all
forms of play. Learn and grow from each other. Join each other for coffee and
maybe a play party " now and then "
This Group is for Adults in the New England Area interested in Adult Spanking &
Bondage. In whatever context: BDSM, sexual foreplay, roleplaying, or for adult
discipline. This is the place to share thoughts and ideas, as well as post a
personal message for those of you who are looking for a partner.
NEFH · New England Fetish Heaven -
Hedonistic Fetishism in New England
This group is for those in or traveling to New England and the North East (MA,
NY, PA, CT, NJ, RI, DE, MD, ME, VT, NH and Eastern Canada) who get into
swinging, s/m, b/d, tv, Dom, sub, fetish, goth, naturalist, bi, lesbian, gay,
poly and other delightful perversions! No spam or flaming. This group is
intended to be a positive non-threatening environment for all members no matter
of lifestyle preferences.
Please, NO EMPTY PROFILES! They will be deleted immediately! If you don't want
to let us know who you are and what you are into, this is not the group for you.
This is a group for slaves and
those identifying as slaves, and their owners, and Masters. There are no hard
and fast rules for etiquette other than be respectful of everyone. You do not
need to call all Masters 'Master' ... Sir will do, unless instructed to do
otherwise. Third person talking is difficult so please talk normally. Also the
A/all type of writing can be distracting so please just write normally also.
This is a place to question, to put personal ads, learn and discuss all issues
having to do with Masters/slaves. As mentioned earlier, please be respectful of
all, common manners and etiquette will sufice. No flaming, no one accusing
anyone else of not being a 'real' Master or slave, as we are all different. Your
age, name, and area should be seen in your profile. Age is very important. Thank
you for joining slave chambers ... we hope your stay is a happy one. Artwork by
Erik Drudwyn. Visit his gallery at
A group for discussion and mutual support of New England Tops and Dominants.
All Tops/Dom/Domme and switches (or those who would like to know more about it)
are welcome. Meetings are in a safe, supportive environment for the purpose of
education, exploration and resolution of issues with regard to the care and
beating of the bottom/submissive.
A discussion list for female dominants in the New England area of the US. This
list is open only to Dommes, no males or submissives, in order to give Dommes a
safe place to discuss those things that DO come up, without worrying about how
you'll look to others. No flaming, no insults - just support &; camaraderie.
Switches in their Domme mode are also welcome
This is a group for submissives who would like a place to chat, be themselves,
share the joys and the difficults of being submissive. This
group is a safe place for male and female submissives, slaves and switches (in
the submissive role) to have a place to share and be themselves.
SNHSubSpace · Southern New
Hampshire SubSpace -
Support, advice, and information for Southern New Hampshire submissives. All
submissives and switches, male and female alike are welcome.
TO BE CONSIDERED FOR MEMBERSHIP YOU MUST MENTION IF YOU ARE A
SUBMISSIVE/SWITCH/BOTTOM AND WHY YOU ARE INTERESTED IN JOINING
All postings are to be considered confidential, please do not cross post or
share postings with those not on the list without permission from the author of
the post. This is to be a safe space for discussion, differing opinions are
welcome, abuse is not. Play nice and we will all enjoy. Personal ads are not
allowed on this site as this is not a place to find a Dom/me or Top to meet your
needs. I look forward to sharing this journey with you.
RIG_Boston · Ravishment
Interest Group - Boston -
A group for people in the Boston,
Massachusetts and New England area interested in ravishment (aka forced sex or
fantasy rape roleplay).
Education, mutual support, and news notes of interest.
MUST BE 18 OR OLDER TO JOIN!
RavNet (Ravishment Network) is a coalition of people to provide support and
education to, and advocacy for, men and women interested in ravishment (aka
forced sex role play). We are very often misunderstood even by those in the
Fetish community. RavNet's missions are to provide education on safe, consensual
roleplay, to provide support for those who enjoy ravishment, and to help others
understand our fetish. ONLY THOSE WITH A YAHOO PROFILE SHOWING TO BE OF LEGAL
AGE FOR ADULT GROUPS WILL BE APPROVED FOR MEMBERSHIP.
RavNet Executive Committee
Calendar for New England Munches
If you'd like yours listed, or if there are inaccuracies (munch moved, changed
time, no longer meeting) please let me know -
I'll be happy to list other events as well as munches.
If you are would like to be able to post your group's events to the calendar,
contact me and I'll add you as a moderator. (email@example.com)
The BGL forum is a supportive and confidential haven where BD/SM and Alternative
Lifestyle group/organization/Munch meeting leaders can ask advice, share group
information, learn from one another, share ideas, discuss community issues, and
'decompress' (ie: moan and groan) with others who understand the joys and
difficulties of running an alternative sexuality organization.
This list is open to those individuals who run groups, organizations, or Munch
meetings, and who work exclusively to support, educate, and inform members of
the kink, professional, and vanilla communities. This is NOT a forum for people
who run play clubs, private parties, BD/SM based commercial businesses, or
Professional Dommes. If you have questions about qualifying for the list, please
contact the list owner.
Established leaders, presidents, founders, VPs, treasurers, education officers,
secretaries, media relations officers, publicity/advertising officers, conflict
resolution officers and membership liaisons are welcomed. Participants must be
currently involved with the organization they represent.
Flaming, insults, and hostility toward other forum members will NOT be
tolerated. *Passionate debates* are allowed as long as they stay on subject and
there is no insulting or name calling - This is an adult forum and participants
are asked to act appropriately. Personal disagreements that have nothing to do
with BD/SM related issues are to be handled offline. Anyone upsetting the
sanctity of the forum will be placed on moderated status and possibly removed
This list is dedicated to legal issues
surrounding BDSM as a consensual lifestyle, businesses whose major trade or
product caters to people who engage in BDSM, and groups who are looking to
discuss legal issues as they endeavor to set up groups/clubs/organizations. This
list is primarily geared toward the United States, but certainly opinions from
Europe, Australia, Canada, and other areas can add new perspective to issues.
Throughout the US, more play space is being developed, more parties are being
held, and more people keep getting arrested. This list will encourage open
discussion of federal, state and municipal law and how organizations have dealt
with law enforcement and government agencies. Appropriate topics may include,
but are not restricted to: risk management, constitutional law, personal injury
and safety, operational issues, sodomy and prostitution law.
This list is designed to assist people in the SM/Leather/Fetish communities with
locating employment in the lifestyle and/or finding an employee. This could be
anything from club worker/manager to toy-maker to house-servant to writer, etc.
We also allow any post for people looking for or posting openings for
scene-friendly jobs as well. We figure we get discriminated against enough - we
refuse to do so here. This is an announcement type list and is not designed for
discussions. Posts are moderated and the member list will remain confidential.
(additional search keywords: SM, D/s, job, jobs)