Current Events

This list is ALWAYS changing as we learn of new events!

If you have a BDSM organization in northern New England, and would like your events listed here, please let us know.


ALUR (Alternative Lifestyles United - Retreats)

The ALUR Social

A place for those involved in alternative lifestyles.  ALUR has formed in an effort to provide a safe place for those involved in alternative lifestyles to meet and socialize.  ALUR belongs to the community and will be run by those that attend the meetings.  Come and join us, give us YOUR ideas on what you want, how you want it and what you would like to see happen in your community.  The idea is to UNITE, so unite with your fellow kinksters and most of all HAVE FUN!

Socials will be held on the third Saturday of each month from 4-6 p.m.  So come join the fun and meet some very interesting people!

Attending this social is very easy. All you have to do is show up and follow three simple rules. 
1) You must be 21 years old to attend. (Rules of the establishment) 
2) You may wear any fetish wear you want so long as it is street legal. 
3) Respect other peoples boundaries.

ALUR Munch

Rockin' Robins, Promenade Mall, Lewiston

Rockin' Robin's is located in the Promenade Mall, where Flag Ship Cinema's are. Located on Route 196 (turn into the parking lot by Tim Hortin's) just about 1-2 miles from the turnpike from exit 13 off 495.

Our munch location is bright, clean, and there is plenty of free parking. Look for the ALUR sign. The door to Rockin' Robins is just to the right of the cinema as you face the building.

For more information feel free to contact us at or or visit ALUR at 


Upcoming Events and Retreats

Greetings Folks!

It's that time of year again. The warmth of the summer sun, the added vitamin D to our systems and electric sound of whips cracking in the woods! What better to add than some lobster to your system? Summer is not complete without ALUR's annual lobster feed!

It will be held on August 14th. We need people to start signing up soon so we know how many lobsters to order. So reserve your lobster now by emailing me at

Prices will be listed soon so stay tuned for more information.

Warm regards,
The ALUR Team

BDSM UNH (University of New Hampshire)

BDSM UNH invites all University of New Hampshire students who have an interest or are involved 
in BDSM to join our new online support and social group! BDSM UNH exists for the discussion and 
promotion of BDSM lifestyle and practice.  We are not supported by the University, but we are comprised 
of UNH students. 

The group Discusses BDSM issues, techniques, and lifestyle.  We provide an opportunity for UNH students 
who enjoy BDSM to share feelings, thoughts, ideas, and schemes with an open- and like-minded group of 
their peers. 

The group is currently meeting only online in our own Yahoo Club forum. 

For further information, please see the BDSM UNH website at:


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced



Blackstone's - Portland's Oldest Neighborhood Gay Bar is the home base for the HarborMasters.  Blackstones occasionally holds events of interest to the BDSM community.


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

Boston Dungeon Society

BDS is the largest bulletin board in northern New England.  It has a terrific variety of events, most of which are open to the general public.  This is not a complete event list.   There is a complete list, including their members-only events, on the BDS website.   For information on location etc., contact BDS through their Website or by calling 617-783-1386.

BDS classes, workshops and demos are open to the public, unless otherwise noted.  Cost $10 members and associated groups (NELA, BFP, TNG);  $15 non-members.

If you have any questions, or are interested in being a guest presenter, let  me know!

Amy B.
Class Coordinator for Boston Dungeon Society


Upcoming Classes and Events

To Be Announced

For class information, please contact: 


The Summerfield Suites in Waltham can be reached by T from the Riverside stop on the green line and then taking a cab. I'm told from someone who has done this that it is about a $20 cab ride, so car-pooling is highly recommended. Parking is free at the hotel.

To get there by car, you may want to refer to the hotel web site's directions: From 93N, take 128 South to Waltham. Take the Totten Pond Road exit (Exit 27A). At the bottom of the ramp, take a right onto Winter Street. You will cross back over the highway you just got off.On the other side, take a quick right onto 3rd Ave. Turn left onto 4th Ave. Follow 4th Ave. up a hill... the sign and entrance for Summerfield Suites is on the left.

From the Pike, take 128 North to Waltham. Take the Totten Pond Road exit (Exit 27A). At the bottom of the ramp, take a right onto Totten Pond Road, and an IMMEDIATE right onto 3rd Ave. (this will feel like a U-turn). Turn left onto 4th Ave. Follow 4th Ave. up a hill... the sign and entrance for Summerfield Suites is on the left.



Hartford, CT  - gothic/Fetish/Industrial:

Each month, BOUND has a particular theme. Patrons are encouraged to dress to suit the theme! Patrons are also encouraged to explore their fantasies and to dress in leather, latex, pvc, corsets, etc. A minimum of all black is necessary to satisfy the dress code.


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

Bound For Pleasure

"Bound for Pleasure" is a New England BDSM social group that firmly believes in Safe, Sane and Consensual activities that will reflect on the B/D, D/S, S/M, Fetish and Alternative Lifestyle Communities in a healthy and positive light. 

Be sure to check out our web page for the Calendar of Events!

Bound For Pleasure at MANRAY

Fetish evenings are held on the 1st and 3rd Friday of each month at Manray in Cambridge. Bound for Pleasure gathers on the 3rd Friday each month to party. Everyone is welcome to join us! You will find us in the front room on your left as you enter the club, near the pool table. I will be wearing a glow-stick necklace so you can find me! Hope to see you there!


For directions and their STRICT dress code, please log onto their web site at


Upcoming Events:



The CUFSmaine Munch and Classes:  

~~ General Information ~~

Dress for class or Munch:  Casual dress is requested.  No fetish dress please.

Dress for Classes - Unless otherwise requested, dress is casual - collars are allowed.

All Events Held:  The last Sunday of the Month EXCEPT in November, December, and occasionally January, when we usually meet a week early so as not to interfere with long Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years Holiday weekends.


        Classes:  4pm - 5:45pm
        Munch:  6pm - approximately 8:15 - 8:30pm

Place:  Holiday Inn By the Bay, Spring Street (Across from the Cumberland county Civic Center), Portland, Maine - we meet in the YORK Room, Second floor.

Directions: I-95, Exit 6a. I-295 to Exit 7, (Franklin Street).  Stay on Franklin Street for five (5) lights.  Take a right onto Middle Street, travel approximately 1 mile (Middle Street turns into Spring Street.) Holiday Inn is on the left.

Tips for New or Nervous People:  

All CUFSmaine events are can participate a little or as much as you like.

CUFSmaine events are SOCIAL in nature.....there is never any play, so you don't have to worry about being asked to do something that might make you uncomfortable.

All CUFSmaine events are SAFE AREAS.  If at any time you feel uncomfortable, or if you feel somebody is being too familiar with you, just let Ren or LesVoiles know, and they will speak to that person.  We also encourage the use of a safeword if you feel the need.

You are not expected to 'be in role' for CUFSmaine events......subs do not defer to Dominants and Dominants do not give orders to submissives.  We are all INDIVIDUALS who share an interest in BDSM/Alternative Sexuality, gathering to share conversation, education, and support.  

At the Munch and Sub Circle, we will ask you to introduce yourself with a first name (only) or a scene name, and we will ask you to tell us your role (Dom, sub, Switch, Not sure...) - other than that, you are welcome to hop right into the discussions, or sit quietly and observe - whichever makes you more comfortable. 

Our members are very welcoming to newbies - after all, we were once newbies ourselves!    :)


Upcoming CUFSmaine Classes:

Sunday, November 21, 2004

Erotic Takedowns and Manual Restraint

Instructor:  Lafayette{Ren}

Sunday, November 21, 2004
4:00pm to approx. 6pm
Holiday Inn by the Bay, Portland, Maine
Admission: CUFSmaine Members - $8.00, BDSM Public - $12.00 (cash, please for both)
Dress is casual

Ravishment. Resistance play. Forced-sex fantasy. Cops and robbers. Forced enslavement fantasy. The 'why' is as various as the 'how'.

This class will draw on Lafayette's experience in the martial arts, BDSM and ravishment to provide safe, effective and stimulating takedowns. Learn how your own body can be the most effective restraint for your partner. See how to ensure the safety of both you and your partner for when the play gets rough and intense.

A big thanks goes to Desmond Ravenstone for providing the 'why' in his Ravishment class and inspiring Lafayette to start teaching the 'how'.


All are invited to stay for the regular Munch, which follows in the same room (separate admission).   :)


CUFSmaine Munch Meeting!

Next Munch - Sunday, November 21,  2004

Location: The Holiday Inn By the Bay - YORK ROOM - 88 Spring Street, Portland, ME
6pm to approximately 8:15pm
$3.00 for members, $5.00 for non members

For information on this monthly event, please see our CUFSmaine Munch page.


Annual Events:

~~ The Maine B&D Fetish Shopping Spree ~~

Sponsored by CUFSmaine, Inc.

Due to the relocation of the NELA Fetish Fair Fleamarket to December, we are in the process of moving the Maine B&D Fetish Shopping Spree to April, in to fill the open gap in New England Events - more info to come soon!


D/s NewHampshire

A 21+ local BDSM munch group that meets once a month to socialize with like-minded adults.  We were formed to let other kinksters know we are out here, that we're not alone.  Our goal is to educate ourselves first, then the vanilla community at large, to hopefully generate tolerance, and perhaps even acceptance of our lifestyle choices.


Upcoming Events


Real time BDSM on the New Hampshire/ Vermont border. We host monthly socials and private gatherings.


Upcoming Events:

To be announced

Enforcers, Rhode Island

For more information about the Enforcers R.I., contact:

Enforcers R.I.
PO Box 5770
Providence, RI 02903-0770


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

Erotica Rhode Island

Club Night at Club Hell

Miko Exoticwear Presents "EROTICA" A Hot Sexy Dance Night at HELL 73 Richmond Street, Downtown Providence. Every Wednesday Night from 9pm-1am

Dress Code Strictly enforced.

Latex-Leather-PVC-Lingerie-Fetish-Drag-Crossdress-Uniform-Formal-Gothic-Erotic Costumes-Be Creative-Be Sexy

Go-Go Dancers-Performances-Giveaways-Games and more!!


Free Parking across the street

Changing Room and Clothes storage available

$5.00 at the door, or you can pick up your free tickets at Miko Exoticwear, 653 North Main Street, Providence, RI

For more information call 401.421.6646 or out of RI 800.421.6646


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


FLAG (Fits Like A Glove)

Glove Fetish organization - open to men and women.  
Group is predominantly gay, but all are welcome regardless of sexuality.
FLAG is open to anyone who shares the love for gloves.

Jim Maciel - FLAG President
Rob Claffie - FLAG Vice President 

For further information please write:  or see the FLAG website


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


Grand Opening

Grand Opening is a wonderful store in Brookline, and hosts various fetish classes.  For more complete descriptions call or check their website.   Call (617) 731-2626 for details.


Upcoming Classes and Events

SIGN UP FOR CLASSES SOON! They fill up fast!
For more details, go to  or call us at (617) 731-2626!


Grand Opening! now offers Sex Toy Home Parties!

Yep! Why have one of those boring home products parties? Or why not offer a bridal shower that she'll really remember! Now you have the opportunity to bring Grand Opening!'s high quality toys, lubricants, safer sex supplies, books and videos to your home! We will provide hands-on samples to touch and feel, enlightening information about our products and their uses, and a gift from us for all those who attend. Your guests simply place their orders that evening and we'll do the rest. Their products will be shipped directly to them from Grand Opening! No hassles to distribute their items and confidentiality is guaranteed! If you are interested or would like to learn more, please contact Megara at Grand Opening! at (617) 731-2626.

To register for our classes and workshops, please call (617) 731-2626 with a credit card number. This will hold your place in class. Many classes fill up so we suggest you preregister to avoid the disappointment of a full class. If you are unable to attend a class you have registered for, please call us 24 hours in advance and you will not be charged for the class. If you fail to notify us you will not be in class, you will be charged for the class. You do not need to preregister for events that are free. And now when you attend a class at Grand Opening!, you get a 10% discount coupon for your next purchase! Thanks!

You may also e-mail for more information.


Be sure to bookmark our ever-changing catalogue and website at We've had an online catalogue since 1995! Add yourself to our confidential email list. Last minute information on where I'll be presenting workshops and other surprises like E-Specials! To join the list, please email us directly at

--Kim and the Staff


The Group

Bad Bob & Waxy Girl have established "THE GROUP" for our friends who seek the fellowship of like Minded people in the BDSM community. WE are a NON POLITICAL group and We will remain free of Controversy created by Rules & Regulations. We have only one purpose as "THE GROUP" and that is to have fun. Nothing more nothing less.

For more information, please contact The Group at:


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


Kindred of Maine

Kindred of Maine is a leather/levi social club. Its mission generates from the origin of its name, Kindred, meaning family.

Kindred is a family of gay men and women who seek to celebrate their alternate lifestyles in an open-minded, nonjudgmental atmosphere of brotherhood, learning, and mutual support.

Confidently, passionately, and proudly, Kindred nurtures the freedom to explore and expand the humanity of its brothers and sisters, individually and as a group, and seeks to share its knowledge and experiences with others who value Kindred's goals.

Please see their website at:


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


Kinky Times

Kinky Times at Play

7pm - Midnight

Kinky Times at Play is for novice and serious players alike who wish to spend time with the community and/or playing.  We enjoy providing a fun atmosphere for playtime, so don't be shy, come out and play!  There are several wonderful Dominants available who are more than happy to share their techniques and advice if you are looking to learn a new skill while hanging out with friends.  The bar will be open for your enjoyment.  We also have a DJ to spin music for you to dance to, and to play by.  There are currently 5 separate and distinct play stations ... including spanking benches, pillars, areas for vertical bondage and a wax station (bring your own candles) with 5 more stations due to be completed shortly.  There is no dress code, although fetish wear is welcome.  This is a relaxed group that has a great time together. 

Play rules are simple:

No Full Frontal Nudity
No Penetration vaginally, anally or orally
No Body Fluids (i.e., no showers, blood, etc.)
No Masturbation
Clean up after yourself
Consideration of others is expected

The cover to attend the play time event for members is $10 for females, $15 for males or $20 per couple. If you are a Kinky Times member, you may bring a guest, but the cover charge for guests is $25 per person.  Again, the doors open at 9:00PM for playtime.

This is not open to the general public. 

We meet at a club in Providence with ample free parking in a safe, well lit downtown location. Our location is protected to insure and preserve everyone's continued anonymity so you need to contact myself or Lady Scorpion for location information. You may contact us for more information or to send in your RSVP to myself ( or directly to  

Interested kinksters may join the Kinky Times email list by clicking on the following link:  for updates and reminders about upcoming events.  This list also includes driving directions for finding the club. 


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced



ManRay is a dance club in Cambridge, with fetish nights on Fridays.  Fantasy Nights are 1st and 3rd Friday of each month.   Hell Night on each 2nd Friday.  Last Friday is dungeon play with Mistress Mimi. 

ManRay is at 21 Brookline St. in Cambridge.   Contact ManRay


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


MP's NorthEast 

The Miracle Provider's NorthEast
All Proceeds from events sponsored by the Miracle Providers Northeast Benefit LOCAL children and Families infected/affected by HIV


Would you like to help People infected/affected by HIV and make some good friends doing it?
Become a Volunteer!!
For more information 

EMAIL US  with Volunteer in the subject line.

Marc Clermont
The Miracle Provider's NorthEast 


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

NELA (New England Leather Alliance - Formerly NLA New England) 

A chapter of the National Leather Association

New England Chapter of the National Leather Association has monthly meetings held in the club room at: The RamRod. 1254 Boylston St., Boston. For more information check out their web page at NLA New England or contact for details. 

The New England Leather Alliance is a chapter of the National Leather Association. We are a pansexual group, dedicated to support and political organizing of the leather/fetish/BDSM communities. Our events are open to adults of all genders and persuasions. Event hotline Number (617) 864-0655!

You can also view this schedule at 

For any comments, questions or suggestions, please Write NELA"S Programming Director Kimberly at


Upcoming Events:

The Northeast Fetish Group

The NEFG, originators of The Northeast Fetish Games, is an alternative educational and social community group serving CT, MA, ME, NH, NJ, NY, PA, RI, and VT. 


Upcoming Events:

The Northeast Fetish Games

Let The Games Begin?

Absolutely! ... Because when that "Olympic flame" is lit at the end of the grand Opening Ceremonies for The Northeast Fetish Games ( ), the hundreds of attendees will be able to review each and every competitor as they stand ready to meet the challenges of the Games' 24 fetish-themed events.

Every competitor there will be representing one of the 113 alternative lifestyle group or organization residing in the states of CT, MA, ME, NH, NJ, NY, PA, RI & VT.

As they all hope for the chance to win an NEFG gold, silver or bronze medal, or striving be a part of that one team that will earn and bring home The Fetish Cup Trophy ... will your group be well represented?

The bragging rights are up for grabs, but the only way your group can earn that privilege is to start organizing your team now and be ready for The Games.

Each of the 24 events does have limits to the number of individual and team competitors, so it truly is a first-come, first-served basis.

All the information is available for review on the  pages ... click on all the links in the Fetish Games menu link listings ...

Just let us know your intentions to send a team and we'll be happy to post your group and weblink as one of the groups planning to attend ... it will be proudly posted on our website while you begin organizing your competition team ... today's the day to start letting other groups in the Northeast know your organization is ready, willing and able to kick their Fetish Games butts!

Have questions? ... just drop us a line ...

Take care for now,
Executive Director 


PENE (Power Exchange of New England)

BDSM Social group serving New Hampshire and Vermont.  Please Email for more information. 


Upcoming Events:



Every Thursday, 9pm - 11pm

Come join us for kinky chat at:  PENE (Power Exchange New England)
Just click on PENE CHAT

PJ's Lounge

Water Street, Augusta, Maine


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


PONE ( Pony and Pet Play of New England )

Run by Mistress Lalique of Massachusetts

For more information, please call  (508) 420 - 9045


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

The Rogues

It is with great excitement and pride that we announce the formation of "The Rogues" - a leather group made up if Men, Women, Boys (over 21). It is important to note we are not a "Leather Club", but a group of people that are genuinely into leather and the leather life style.

Our purpose or mission, if you will, is to be an active part of the leather community of New England. To offer a helping hand in friendship and human resources where we can, i.e. to take part in fund raisers of other clubs and other events through out the area. In addition, to educate those with a genuine interest in learning more of what the leather lifestyle is all about. 

MEMBERSHIP: It is open to all that have a Genuine (again that word) interest in Leather and our lifestyle. Having some leather would be nice.

MEETINGS: Our meeting are held once a month at the homes of our members. It comes with a Pot Luck dinner and social time. Note: sometimes we have our meeting at a local, gay friendly restaurant.

DUES: There are none. However, we take donations for our gas fund which is used to help us travel.

PATCHES: We have 2 sizes - one is a shoulder size about 5 in and another a back patch which is 10 in. Your choice. Members buy their own patch. It is yours.

OFFICERS: We have none. We do, however, have the following, who are all volunteers: 
Sr Advisor 
Jr. Advisor 
Financial Advisor 
Note Taker 
Travel Agent 

FUNDRAISERS: From time to time we will conduct a fund raiser for a worthwhile project. ALL moneys raised will be donated to that project. These fundraisers will be conducted throughout the area, not limited to Maine. For example, if a leather club is conducting a function, we will, if we can, pledge to be there and support the event in anyway we can.

Coming soon will an email address and contact phone number for more information.  Right now you may contact us at:
   207 386 0086
  207 495 2354
We will very happy to answer all your questions and concerns.


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced

The Society

The Society meets the second Sunday of each month at Project 100, in Hartford, CT, ( from 2:00 - 6:00pm.  However, many of us gather earlier (around 11:00 AM) for the wonderful breakfast that Project 100 offers!  The meeting agenda is typically:  a bit of social time, the business portion, a break as we gather for a potluck dinner which is followed by a workshop or presentation, and of course play! 

If you have any question or need more information, please feel free to contact me at:  OR give us a call at 860-231-3340.

Please visit our website at:



Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


Submissive Support Group - Bangor, Maine

A group where subs both male and female and switches who are focusing on the submissive role to get together to share their experience, strength and hope in a non threatening  manner.

Please email me if you wish to attend and need directions....susie{m/mt}


Upcoming Events:

To Be Announced


Western Mass Power Exchange

The WMPE meets twice each and every month. 

A non-fetish meeting is held the first Wednesday of every month at the Hu Ke Lau restaurant in Chicopee, Massachusetts beginning at 6:30 PM.  There is no charge for attendance at the Massachusetts meetings.  Business issues, topics of great interest, decadent and useful raffles, companionship, and an occasional burst of good fun are standard practice at these functions!

Visit our website at for more information.

How to Contact Us:


Postal........WMPE, PO Box 90351, Springfield, MA 01139


Upcoming Events!


Mingle with WMPE members and friends online!
Visit our special WMPE Online page at our website for all the instructions.

~~~ Other Happenings ~~~

Seeking Photography Models for Fetish Photography

From aleyna of Inner Secrets Photography

Are you an exhibitionist?  Would you like to be immortalized in a calendar? 

The year is going by quickly, and I am in need of more models, for a new calendar in the makings, the second annual fetish calendar.  

I would love to have a good cross section this time, with Dom/mes, subs, male/female.  The one comment I heard about my first calendar, was the omission of male subs.  I also would love to have some Dommes too ... last time I had female subs, and one brave Dom, oh, and one lovely piercing with nipple rings :) 

I would like to begin a tradition here, of yearly fetish calendars for you all to hang on your walls, and remind you of wiitwd all year long, lest we forget? *chuckle* 

In all seriousness now, I would love to have as many people in this calendar as possible, diversity is my goal, body modification, leather, gay/lesbian, Dom/sub, crossdressing, transgender, any thing that represents the life we have chosen... I can protect your faces if that is a consideration, there are many ways to take a photo... a body shot, just a small area showcasing some piercings and such, or tattoos, leather clothing... pvc, anything... 

Inside, outside, posed for ... scenes ... or any other idea anyone has.  I'm open to all ideas.  I am not a rich and famous photographer... (yet)  :)  <-- laughing at myself,  so I cant pay huge sums of money for this 'privilege' of posing and being in this wonderful calendar ... which will be sold at the November fetish Spree, and if I can manage it, at the Boston Flea in January.  I will, however, work out some form of remuneration for your modeling for me.  Also, i will be having a ballot at the fleas, for everyone to vote for their favorite person, and the winner will be nominated calendar model of the year... and get a small prize for it.  Also, the person voting can leave their name and a contact address and i will be having a drawing for a doorprise, but you have to vote... you need not be present to win, hence the contact information. 

Please email me ..... I am hoping for a really wonderful, erotic, exciting calendar this year, but I cant do it without someone to pose for me...  

Please be from the New England area only and willing to travel to Maine for the session.

I'll be waiting to hear from a lot of you.... PLEASE   :) 


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