Where to meet other BDSM folks!
The 'CUF Link' - CUFSmaine's monthly online Newsletter - personal ads
are free for members of the BDSM or alternative public! You must be a
current subscriber to the CUF Link (which is free) in order to place a personal
ad. Ads run for three months and may be written free form or follow the
format below: Remember....please keep ads tasteful and refrain from using vulgarities.
Bondage.com - A site dedicated to BDSM and Alternative Lifestyles. We think that this one has one of the best free memberships offered. For a membership fee, the user has access to BDSM pictures, stories and educational materials.
ALT.com - Another site dedicated expressively to BDSM
and alternative lifestyles - free membership for limited views of personals
(roughly a dozen a day) and membership fees for more privileges.
Adult Friend Finder -
Free personals covering all milieus from BDSM to Vanilla.
Collar Me.com: Free BDSM
Personals for every Mistress, Master, submissive, and slave
Portland Press Herald Web Friends - basic membership is free, but upgrades cost a bundle - the perfect personals spot if you are truly a 'masochist' - ads must be written with the utmost of discretion in order to be published, thus making it really hard for BDSMers to find one another.
Casco Bay Weekly Relationship Network - Personals section of the Casco Bay Weekly that caters to those 'seeking an uninhibited relationship.' Searching ads is free, however, you must buy 'stamps' or have a 'subscription' to retrieve ads.
Portland Phoenix Eresphere - Dedicated to BDSM and alternative lifestyles - very similar to the CBW website as members must purchase stamps or subscriptions in order to contact other members. Erosphere also includes an interview section, book reviews, and the 'Sexpot Savant' column.
Out Personals - GLBiT
Alt Lifestyle -Trial members can access a free 10 day account, but then have to pay a monthly fee to access features such as Instant Messaging, an email box, and chat rooms. Memberships range from $12.95 per month to $199.95 for a lifetime membership.
Erotic Boulivard - Free membership, however a subscription is required to send emails and prepay for other member's replies to your inquiries. Subscriptions are available for 1 month, 3 months, and lifetime....stamps are available in groups of ten.
Poly Matchmaker.com - This is not a site to find random sexual encounters. What we are is a place for mature loving adults to find others who share the Polyamory lifestyle.
Page Updated 08/27/05